Faces of Our Faith: Lydia
Acts 16:11-15,40
©Rev. Sarah Cooper Searight
Swarthmore Presbyterian Church
August 26, 2018
We have done a bit of a funny thing with the text this morning, did you notice? I wonder if
you had to listen a bit differently. Did you catch that the rather concise bit I read of Lydia and her
household, bookends the high drama that Chuck read of Paul and Silas, the slave girl and the jailer?
The missionaries, Paul and Silas and others of course, were all over the place at this time that
we find them in Acts. They were doing just as they had been instructed by the Spirit and the elders
in Jerusalem: spreading the Good News of the Gospel, strengthening the church, leaving no stone
unturned and no authority figured un-agitated (that last one, perhaps just an unintended
consequence of the job…or maybe not).
They picked up folks along the way. The latest was Timothy, son of a Jewish mother and
Greek father, whom Paul encouraged to join them and about whom <TEASER> we’ll hear more next
week.
Today we catch Paul and the gang as they cruise through Macedonia, following on a vision he
had of a man who asked for them to come and help. They couldn’t follow on their intended course
into Asia which, according to the text was an intention blocked by the Spirit, so hey, why not
Philippi?
What a fruitful detour it turned out to be. A slave girl freed, a jailer relieved from disaster, a
gaggle of magistrates humiliated, and Lydia.
There is much that we could say about Lydia, in fact there is much that has been said.
She was a dealer in purple cloth, some understand this to mean that she was wealthy. Her household
was baptized as she was baptized. Some understand this to mean that she had unusual autonomy and
power for a woman at the time.
Many assume her to have become the leader of the church in Philippihighly unusual for sure.
And perhaps something to linger on, if just for a moment: That the apostle Paul who is said to
believe that women should not have leadership roles in the church, is the very same one who
baptized a woman and received her hospitality and wrote that he was encouraged by the deep
faithfulness of the community in Philippi as it grew with her leadership.
Curious.
Lydia was a worshiper of God; the story tells us. Lydia prayed down at the riverside with some
other women from the area. Lydia listened. God opened her heart, and Lydia listened.
When I was a kid, I dreaded the annual hearing tests at school.
I can remember now, sitting down at a small desk in a small room with this black box and a
set of earphones and (usually) a woman who would say, “It’s easy honey, just listen for the beeps
and when you hear them, raise your hand on that side.”
All would start out well. Right sidebeep. Left sidebeep. Right side, right side, left side
beep. But then I would notice that she wrote something down. Silence. Left sidebeep. Silence.
Write on the paper. Silence. Write on paper. Right sidebeep.
One year, this time in the school auditorium for such a test, the facilitator fussed at me, “You
heard it the first time, this is the same thing. Stop playing games, young lady.”
I assure you, I did not play games. I certainly did not like to fail anything. That only got me in
trouble, and at that time I had no desire to be in trouble.
It turned out, after some investigation, that my hearing was mildly worse than it should be.
Emphasis on the mildly, but enough that I’ve naturally adapted to pay closer attention in
conversation.
Of course, hearing is different than listening, even when one person has to work a bit harder
at the hearing part. Listening requires attentiveness, persistence, it requires time, it even requires
some capacity for empathy and vulnerability.
These are all very difficult when it feels like there is no attention to spare, no extra time to
give, and it is harder and harder to understand where another person is coming fromparticularly
when it feels so different than where I am coming from.
It is easy to condemn the time that we live in for this limited capacity we have to really pay
attention to one another, to really want to listen. The energy it takes to have a one-on-one
conversation in person is significantly more than the energy it takes to text periodically or to have an
argument via social media.
Yet, I wonder if one of the reasons we get the story of Lydia is because it has always been a
particular gift of time and effort to truly listen. I suspect that there has always been a ready excuse
for why it is easier to choose not to listen.
The slave-owners bottom line was threatened. They didn’t hear a word else-wise.
The magistrates authority was on the line. They only heard the crowd chanting.
What Paul and Silas were saying were things not becoming of good, law-abiding, Roman citizens.
Yet, the Spirit moved in the heart of Lydia as she heard the words at the riverside that one
sabbath morning and at some point, she began to really listen.
There’s a lot, Scripture tells us, that the Spirit is able to do by the riverside with folks who
are ready to listen. The disciples were called to follow one morning as they stood there ready to cast
their nets. The Hebrew slaves were set free there one day when the waters parted before them to
make a way out of no way. John preached and baptized there, and people flocked to him all the way
out to the wilderness from Jerusalem. The resurrected Jesus stood there with bread and fish and
invited his disciples to join him one last time before sending them out on the mission that Paul and
Silas and Timothy and now Lydia were taking up as their own.
Lydia and her whole household were baptized, and she invited everyone over to celebrate.
Lydia listened, and the church of Philippi began that very day.
Truth is though, riverside or mountaintop or coffee shop or street side, when we set ourselves
to the task of Spirit-led listening, it’s pretty hard not to expect something will change.
In 1965, Xernona Clayton moved from Muskogee, Oklahoma to Atlanta, GA to work for the
Southern Christian Leadership Conference. Her work of desegregating hospitals in the city was so
successful at the time, that she was appointed by the Mayor to lead the Model Cities program, which
was part of Lyndon Johnson’s Great Society. As head of the program, Xernona worked with five
different communities and the chairperson of each. When she started her work, she was warned
about one of these chair people in particular: Calvin Craig, who at the time was a grand dragon of
the Georgia KKK.
The first time she met with all of the chair people, one man just gave her the tips of his
fingers in a handshake, and she knew that was Mr. Craig. Over the course of that next year, however,
Xernona and Calvin talked almost every day. Mr. Craig kept returning to her office in Atlanta, and
they would sit and talk and laugh together, always respectfully, and speaking of many different
things.
In 1968, three years later, after meeting Ms. Clayton, Mr. Craig held a press conference to
announce that he was leaving the KKK and dedicating his life going forward to, in his words,
“building a nation in which ‘black men and white men can stand should to shoulder in a united
America.’”
Mr. Craig vacillated on this commitment over time, ultimately confirming it; and the impact
of his and Zernona’s conversations was lasting, according to his daughter. Ms. Clayton said that she
never set out to change his mind, but that Dr. King had once told her, “You’ve got to change a
person’s heart before you can change his behavior.”
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It takes time to change a person’s heart. Dr. King and Ms. Clayton knew that the Spirit was
and is in the job of changing people’s hearts, and though it takes time it is worth the attention we
give. This is not a story of the civil rights era that we hear very regularly, but I’d guess (I’d hope) it’s
one that repeated itself in many different offices and street corners and church basements over
many years. This is the hope we have, maybe it is the one of the key hopes we have that we and our
institutions and our communities can change.
It seems that again and again the most unexpected people at the most unexpected times and
places, turn out to be those who the Spirit uses in her work of change. This is a fundamentally
hopeful thing for us, for it means that we can be our better selves. This is a necessary hope, for it
means that we can be a part of this work. No one is left alone by God’s Spirit, no one who is willing
to take a risk of vulnerability to her.
The trouble is taking that risk. Setting aside the excuses, unbinding the chains of self-
importance, swallowing our righteous dogma, and making room for the possibility that we might be
detoured from our safe routines for a bit. Even now. Especially now.
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This story came from the book,
We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations that Matter
. Celeste Headlee
(New York, NY: Harper Collins Publishers, 2017), pp. 60-62.
Listening is an act of faith. It is an act of solidarity. It is attentiveness. It is action. Do not be
fooled to think otherwise. For we cannot know who another person is and where they come from and
what it is that we can do together, if we do not allow the Spirit to open our hearts and truly listen.
There is much that people could say about us as Christ’s followers, those of us who continue
the long and faithful work of the likes of Lydia; and I pray that of all that people could say, what
they do say is that we as the church are willing to listen, to truly listen and to be open for change.
May it be so.