Mad:irritated,annoyed,irked,angry,raging,furious,feelinglikeabad
person
Frightened:anxious,nervous,afraid,feelinghelpless
Guilty:troubled,uneasy,ashamed,feelinghumiliated
Any other feeling is derivative of or within the range of these five.
Becausethefeelingsareuniversal,anegativestatementabouttheselfcanbe
identified in everyone regardless of social class, education, cultural
background,oreconomicstatus,andwhenidentifiedreinforcesthepatient's
motivationforhelp.Eachlifestoryisuniqueinthekindsofpeopleinvolved
andintheeventsthathavetranspiredbuteachisthesameinsofarasoneor
another of the feelings has been experienced by all. There is no person or
group who possesses some unique, never previously recorded feeling.
Cultural differences may make the expression of complaints different—for
example,onepersonmaywailandshriekwithminimalpain,anothermaybe
spartan;onepersonmayreferallcomplaintstothebody,anothertovarious
hexesorspirits—butthepainfulfeelingsdisguisedbythecomplaintsarethe
onesweallshare.
The central issue directly links the past, present, and future that
constitutethepatient'stimelinewiththeaffectsthataccompanymemories,
regressions,fantasies,developmentalarrests,andspurts.Alloftheseemerge
as the unspoken, painful, negative self-image. A person evaluates ongoing